It was just a half an hour Journey with my Boss to Initiate this title in my mind, “The need”, he explained about and made me to change the angle of my Mind towards my needs. It was a very usual conversation, but, the impact on that was amazing. “What we need for the Life?” This is the Million dollar question in front of each and every individual, If, we find the very comfortable answer for this question, we can enjoy at least the moments of our life.

As, the journey of finding the very difficult answer to the above asked question, I observed and gathered a very simple answer from my Boss. That is “ Live for needs, Not for Desires”. In life, there are those things we need, and those things we desire. Where we really screw ourselves up is when suddenly the things we desire, in our minds become things we need.

Needs are those things that provide for our daily existence – food, water, shelter. But, Human love and companionship can most certainly be described as a need, for without it we can’t fulfill our needs. Needs are very basic, and should be easy to recognize.

Do you need a corporate job which gives you Hectic Ulcer??

Do you need a Luxurious car which gives you a depressed son?

Do you need more bank balance, which gives you disphoric and stressed days of life?

I don’t think you and me wont accept the cost of this needs in life.

I agree that, “It is Meaningless to try to live without any desires”. Desires fuel our creativity, energize us, gives us fulfillment, and push us to reach our goals. But, Unfortunately in modern life our desires are giving more over diseases physically and mentally.  The problem arises when your desires become your needs. If, your needs are equal to your desires, you got the ultimate balance of the happiest life.

When it comes to finding our balance between needs and desire, this is where we may need to find that compromise. Rather than insist on a Flat to live a Luxurious life, go for a comfortable rented one, which do not put a strain on your bank account or your emotional well-being. When we started using this Philosophy in all part of life, we can find the Life at a reasonable cost.

Finally, happiness is just a state of mind characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy and never intervened by Rupees, Dollars and Euros. The journey towards happiest life should earn more contentment, more love, more satisfaction, more pleasure and more joy by using the tool called Money.

The famous quote of “Albert Schweitzer” simplifies life as follows,

"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”

It’s again an half an hour usual journey with my boss, But, the lesson it has given me worth for my Life.

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There are lots of Myth and Script behind the Tamil Icon Velupillai Prabhakaran’s Death News. There in the Island, He Died, He committed Suicide, He has been shot down, He drowned in Tsunami, He tried to Escape, He was found in a Channel, he came in my Dream, he was very near to my Home, Oh, God, If he comes really, What I can do?????

This is what friends, a Pseudo death of real Hero’s lesson to this world, the scary shiver to his enemies, As a Freedom Fighter to his Entire community; He has done this damage into the mind set of Extremist who tried to dominate the Tamils. He has diverted the Freedom burn into his entire Ethnic society, the death of Velupillai Prabhakaran may be myth or truth, and I never bother about it. The reason is not only about the Dramatic fake body which has been created by Srilanka, More than that I have a Clear view in this regard. I wanted to insist you too the same Views, That’s what, after a Long time a started writing this…..

The Physical identity of Prabhakaran might be wiped off one or the other day as no one remains beyond the Physical life Boundaries created by Nature. But, You cant kill the image which existed in the Young generation of Tamils by his Way of Thinking towards the Freedom of his own Community, Living with the great values of his own Culture and Tradition has made him emerged as a Icon of this Tamil Community. You can’t kill a man who recovered the lost hopes of his Language and Community. Death is a symbol of Physical inactiveness, Not the Ideology of a Greater Community called Tamil.

A single man’s concept has recovered and handed over our desire of repairing the damaged Language and Culture to the hands of our Youth. He born somewhere else in the world and spread like our Breath all over the Globe. It’s not possible to destroy the image of Prabhakaran from Tamil people’s Mind as we believe that he has recuperated and saved our Language and Culture from Cinema, Deep Religious beliefs and also the Pseudo Dravidian concept.

One of the oldest Ethnic community driven out by the economical causes has been recovered and empathize its identity by the one man army called Velupillai Prabhakaran. There were lot and lot of complying of Tamil culture and tradition behind his Movement, Of course, Tamil youths think proud to speak in Tamil hereafter his bravery. He is almost a Light House to our social and linguistic values.

He organized and reunited the Tamils globally by the social, cultural and linguistic identities, he has given the international identity to the suppression of Tamils in Srilanka, and moreover he discovered a new international identity to the oldest ethnic group. He never disturbed the civilians of his enemy camp; he is always wanted to fight against the target not like Sinhalese to kill the innocent civilians. He is the reproduction of Tamil social and cultural values.

In his period of administration, he has constructed casteless, religion less and corruption less governing policies in Tamil eezham, without the support of any other approved countries in this globe; he has done this as a miracle in modern day’s world. He registered his greater value of Tamil culture by established a government which includes Navy and air force. Most of the dominant modern forces scared about him, the Indian concept always wanted to erase his existence to defend its corruptive and shame governance.

The last 33 years of history he never turned back from his ambition, even in the finale stages of his war, he has given the light of freedom into his young generation, may be some of the elements feel the happiness about his death news, but never a true tamilian. He confirmed his live in the hearts of global Tamils without any hesitation.

When the entire world was against our freedom struggle in srilanka, he is the only man to lighten hopes of Tamils freedom and recovered the fame of our ethnic values. No one can kill him from Tamils heart. He has confirmed the existence of our language and dignity all over the world. Its never be an individual’s limelight. It’s a light of Tamil community; it’s a ray of our ethnic and linguistic values. He has handed over the burn of freedom into the young generation Tamils to ensure our rights in this world.

Foolish desirers of power don’t know that he is the one and only address of Tamil peoples freedom, he is the man who sculptured the victory’s symbol into our history book in modern days. He may have the physical death, but never as an ideology. Death may stop us for a while from our target, but never our intention of freedom in srilanka.

There is a super power in our national leaders bullet to destroy the slavery which never available in any parliaments. Your sovereignty never equals to our soldiers broken legs, from the blood of each and every man who dies in Tamil eezham will bring us our Nation one or the other day.

Beyond death the name Prabhakaran has been switched as holiness in Tamil people’s life, it’s never possible to kill him as a thesis from Tamil people’s heart even thousands of Rajabakshes and Kothapayas. If he could have been killed also, crying and squalling is not a way to respect his soul. Take over the burn of freedom and winning our Tamil nation is the only way to respect him at any cost.

In the name of prabhakaran, it’s our duty of each and every Tamil youth to take over our own community into the greater heights by socially and economically. This community should never solicit for anything to anyone. That’s the one and only respect to make our soldiers soul rest in peace.

The thirst of every Tamil is one and only “Tamil Eezham”

1) After a high pressure has been continuously given by the International community, The Fascist Srilankan Government is not ready to Stop the War. Why?

The first question is only one answer and that is obviously, "Political Power", The srilankan president Rajapakshe promised to his citizens as he is going to demolish and sweep out LTTE from Srilanka. Of course, It is very much a false Promise and not able to achieve. Still the upcoming elections in Srilanka need this kind of Emotional war situation to be focused by the Politicians on Virtual energy levels rather to lie down on the real Social Economical step down. Whereas, all the Politicians in South Asia are the same (or) people of South Asia’s Maturity level to choose their leaders has to be reconsidered. Now, Mr.Rajapakshe, if your choice is not stop the war and continue the civilian attack on Tamils, That’s the never ending story which keeps the entire srilankan History as a War Zone. My humble request to people of Srilanka is to create an awareness against this Ethnic war between to Communities for the last 40 Years. Try for Peace.

 
2) Is there any other possible methods to stop the War in Srilanka?

The second question is really critical to answer as we don’t have any general setup to stop this kind of Genocide anywhere in this world, Not as a Tamil, Not as a English and Not as a Sinhalese, Irrespective of any Human society, we should have a General setup to Stop and intervene into the war. United Nation is yet to be powered to actively intervene into the Zone. Instead of partiating into Ethnic old age, the world should come together as a Human Community. 

3) What is India’s Ideology on this War against Tamils?

Third major question have more values as India is the key partner of its SAARC friend to kill the innocent Tamils in Srilanka. They are supplying Arms, Medicine, Technical team as well as Financial support to sweep out Tamils from Srilanka. The policy makers of Indian Concept failed to create a Secure Mind set for one of the oldest and valuable members of its own country and they have now developed the Mind set of Tamil Nation into the Younger Generation. I am very sure about the failure of Indian External Policies and it is going to be more complicated in near future for the Indian Concept as they are concentrating on Anti-Islamic campaign in India through all medias.

4) Apart from LTTE, is there any other representatives alive for Tamils in Srilanka?

The fourth question is almost vanished out by the feelings of world Tamils by raising and appointing LTTE as a sole representatives of Tamil Eezham in Srilanka. You can even see the Rebels Flag was highly flown in front of White House, Un, British Parliment and all other Nations throughout the world. Not only the support of Tamils apart from Mother land, The people inside the war zone never interested to come out of the Zone as that’s their Mother Land. There is no doubt and no other choice to the Srilankan government to approve LTTE as the one and only representatives of Tamil.

Apart from all these happenings, We should keep the Global decorum with Peace and Love, Whatsoever My identity is, I love all the Sinhalese and their Children on behalf of my Entire Tamil Community, We all love you and not likely to kill any of your young kids.

Please understand us and Make sure of Peace to the Entire Island. Mr.Rajapakshe, If you want to be a part of Human History, Please proceed Peace activities on behalf of entire Sinhalese Nation. Else you know the answers and Power of our Soldiers. They are very much keen on their Targets, Not on Civilians. May, God Bless you are not one of the Target.

Peace for the Entire Globe.

Mumbai terror attack has been now called by 26/11 attack by the American imitate electronic media. responsible and being called as one of the democratic pillar, The indian media once again showed the aggressive american mind set to the indian public. There is no reason other than the 9/11 imitation to called Mumbai attack as 26/11.

You’ll find thousands of tweets from public near the site of the tragedy as well as folks in other countries who are offering support. People are sharing locations where blood is needed, police activity that they are witnessing, and the health status of their family and friends.

This is good, minus one little point in there – “The police activity”. These updates have begotten seemingly urgent warnings from users reporting that the government of India is asking people to stop reporting the police move due to the fear of the terrorists using the tools to glean information. Those not tweeting for the omission of police details are calling it a hoax.

But are we serious? Scores died in Mumbai and many more die across the world due to senseless acts of terror. But who cares? We never care much about the every day terror death toll, we will just give comments and go through.

Finally, we started accusing the politicians for all the ills which we are facing in the country, Politicians are just a part of our society and absolutely they are reflecting you and me. because, you and me electing them by voting in a Democratic system. The MP’s and the MLA’s are our representatives. They have not landed from the moon to rule over the country, “They are part of the very society we live in”.

That’s why, when we choose them, we too are accountable. Majority of the A-listers of our society, who are so enraged by the attacks in Mumbai, don’t even go out to vote! And can now be seen giving sound bytes about how the country is going to dogs and our politicians are such bad people. Haha..it’s somewhat amused me and hope do the same impact on you.

When, the whole country got shocked by the terror attack, we allow “Mr.Narendra Modi” to speak about the internal issues right opposite the Taj Hotel was somewhat made me shy. Even our media allow this kind of high drama’s and running their visual attraction.Anyway, many of you couldn’t have slept and kept watching television (and improving TRP’s) as the situation was so glum and depressing. And even if you had napped for a while, I guess you were shaken out of your slumber by our television anchors who hollered when smoke billowed out of Taj Hotel, as if a freak goal in football was scored or as if an accident in F1 race had taken place.

Even you are getting die on terror attack, you should know how to pose to the media Camera’s, Rather be a Bus accident victim in India, you should be a Plane crash Victim. There are lot of accidents packed up the villagers life in bulk as the count goes up to 80, But, Unfortunately our Electronic media never attracted by. Agreed aircrafts don’t crash often and that’s why if they do, then its big news. But aren’t the people, the aspirations that get extinguished the same whether it be a bus or an aircraft.

We as a society have to change first and be more empathetic to our fellow countrymen. And, the change ‘should’ start from the upper echelons, and then only we can expect it to percolate down to the entire society.

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Three weeks Back, I have read a news which gave me a certain anguish, Generally, Human death news wont make me this kind of depression to feel and worry about. May be, because of either the Maturity of understanding death as the Ultimate truth given by Nature or continuously reading the same death news in papers. OK, let me come to the subject………

THE NEWS IS AS FOLLOWS:-

“A PANTHER ENTERED AND ATTACK SIX PEOPLE AT MYSORE, PUBLIC KILLED IT BY THROWING  STONES AND BEATING BY STICKS.”

Pity of dominating the living space by destroyed the Forest area’s of them and made everywhere the concrete forest is one side and plenty of people joined hands to throw stones on the Big cat and murdered it, is the other side like in between the devil and the deep sea. worldwide, the living space of animals is getting diminish and lots of taxonomic groups are under cease is really a worried symptom to the natural balance. 

The increasing density of human caused lot of imbalance in this Global ball. The above said news is an absolute example for natural imbalance. Actually, we are living in lot of their places without any hesitation. If, they would have been having Newspapers, The every day Header should be ” A man entered and dominate”. Don’t take it as an amuse, whereas not only panthers, we are just wrecking more and more species unidirectional.

Panthers or tigers are moreover living in deep forest, exceptionally they have come to the boundaries of forest for drinking water or some of the other reasons like hill rocks and dense tree base. Other than Hunting tiny animals like rabbits and pigs, panthers never like to face any Human or intentionally attack any human by nature, They too afraid of human and wont entertain the human spaces. 

They might have came inside the human space in search of their cubs, their mate else missed out their track while hunting their’s grub. Without finding any valid reason the panther has been murdered.This should be more agony than the attack of a Christian church at Mangalore in my perception. We may give more and more grounds for the happened, but never replace the life of that poor panther and the dissembled cub or mate of the same.

We didn’t learn to protect them, at least we should learn to not kill them. destroying the forest and expanding the living space for us. We are the culprits, who don’s have any rights to killing them by throwing stones and beating them up by long sticks.

On Behalf of Panthers

ARIVAZHAGAN KAIVALYAM

History and records says that, Migration started with the movement of Homo Erectus out of Africa across Eurasia about a Million years ago. Homo sapiens, the believed Ethnic social group of early Human being appeared to have colonized all of the Africa about 1,50,000 years ago, and moved out of Africa 70,000 years ago. Later moved out of Africa and spread across Australia, Asia and Europe by 40,000 years ago.

So, we can come to the conclusion of ” Migration is a Genuine Global action”.

Well, Now How the migration process defined in India?

Migration might be a pleasure to someone who loves to be comfort and adding wealthy lifestyle. In fact, The same migration to the man who loves and respect his own culture and mother land always feel the pain of migration.

There are several types are available in Migration, the well know migration factors are derived and defined as:

1) Seasonal Human Migration

2) Permanent Migration in Local and Regional.

3) International Migration.

In that second major class of migration claims the first place most commonly in the developing nations. This is due to the Globalization and Industrialization effect. for this rural to urban migration there are so many factors playing their important roles.

The first reason of this will starts with Survival and followed by Not enough Jobs, Few opportunities, Primitive conditions, Political fear, Poor Medical and Basic Facilities, Not being able to practice Religion, Loss of Wealth, Natural Disasters, Death Threats, Slavery, Pollution, Poor Housing and Landlords.

There are people who migrated in my views and experience are three. The first one is Myself migrated due to the better opportunities and family related Problems, So there is not much entailing to describe and discuss about my Migration, as, I have an option and rights to back home at any moment.

The second people, I found are Kashmir Migrants. These the people migrated because of the above mentioned push factors like Political fear and death threats. I understand and feel that, This is one of the most painful migration whereas, they are forced to go out of their Motherland. I don’t want to be more keen on people who are enjoying the so called with better living conditions and bask.

But, two months back, I found a boy who comes out from a very poor background, as his father is selling tea in industrial area. He is one of the kashmiri migrant and who applied for the migrant certificate to avail his migrant quota in educational institutions. Where, I was also taken the same task for my boss, and struggled around six months with the maximum pain to approach the government of Karnataka, even after spent more than 5000 rupees and also some political, media people’s support to acquire the Same ” Migrant Certificate“.

I was terrifically scarred about the boy, who really faces the pain of migration. Exceptionally some of the people who live in better conditions are also having the tangible pain about their loose of mother land. They are also defending themselves to create an awareness, organize and look forward to back home at any cost.

the most painful migration and it’s burden is just being called as ” Migrants” in their own country. The great Indian democracy enforces citizens of any states of India have all the rights to live with no hesitations and ordinances.

the third and final migration is an International migration, which, I know with the Srilankan Tamil’s migration. I have a lot of essence and intentions to write about this third migration which is happening since the early 1970’s. The existing push factors of Kashmiri migration in addition to the poor chances of finding Justice by both the Srilankan’s and Fellow LTTE men. I thought of write a detailed article about the same but later.

Finally, The ultimate pain of being a migrant will definitely hurt them at any point of their lifetime. The most painful words I received in my social life conditions are ” You are the other, came to our Place” repeatedly delivered by the Localities.

A man who really have morale dignity, never like to receive this words at any cost.

“My own land and People are the one and only Heaven” – This will match even a Tribe who lives in the banks of Amazon.

Ram Sethu, More over a dream project for the southern part of India. When the political parties of south India got the key to form a central government, this project got alive and elevated. while going to the depth of this project and it’s importance to the Indian economy.

We have to consider three major facts.

First one is the challenge and the alternate for the Srilankan harbor Colombo. In modern days Colombo harbor is having all the importance for cross over in two directions.When we established this project, we can upbeat the srilankan harbor by reducing distance and the cut off expenses for all the cross country ships. we can enjoy the benifits of atleast 50 percent, where Colombo is getting nowadays.

The second one is our regional security, whereas the Americans already established their temporary naval base at Colombo. they will be keen on controlling the entire south Asia by having a hold at Colombo. when we established this project successfully, we are the major players and have a sound security arrangement in our own region. in continuation of this our fishermen also will be well secured.

The third and major fact is that the employment for the localities and the trade development. by boosting this project will definitely cost us the better infrastructures on the southern part of Tamilnadu and also other southern states.

There is no links between this project and Ram, by considering the political games played by all the parties. Ram is completely our belief and no one is against that when we ensure to not disturb a development project. If it is still hurt our sentiments, we can go for the alternate way by not digging the geological sediments which is believed as Ram Sethu. This is almost a dream project for the development of our Indian economy and the next generation. we have lot of responsibilities on this issue. By joint hands we will protect and encourage this project. that will be the best what we can present to the younger generation.

Hey Ram…..Save the Project.

I believe in the concept of India, which taught me the essence of Patriotism and Unity in differences. as an Indian, I celebrate my country’s winning moments whatsoever. when, Ahinav Bindra snatches gold at Beijing Olympics, I distributed sweets to my whole office and expressed my gratitude. I love and believe in the concept of Mother India.

Whereas, I have some unanswered questions with me, to vigorously find the answers. when prime minister of India, attended the “SAARC” conference at Colombo last month, expressed his grievances towards the killings of Indian employees at Afghan – Indian embassy.

Well, I don’t have any second thought on that issue,but, why he didn’t expressed any single word about the Tamil fishermen repeatedly killed by the Srilankan navy and the several attack on the poor fishermen. This irritate me and harassed my morale. the ethnic ancient social group called Tamil’s may be the tribes who don’t have values, on modern Indian political structure.

The history of ancient India always brief you about the importance of their relationship between the western countries like Egypt, Rome, Greek and the entire countries of south east Asia. Fishing is an ancient and favorable profession to the coastal villages of Tamilnadu, even later 20th centuries, they don’t have any problem doing their own business other than the natural calamities.

The government of India, which supplies technical support and weapons on basis of regional development to kill my fellow Tamils is a different issue and not related to the topic. but people who believe and comes under the political boundaries of India, have all the rights to get protected by the government of India rather always under threat of their lives and liable at business. LTTE and so called terrorism may be the percept of both the countries, but not at the cost of my beloved fishermen.

Srilankan navy ingeminate this gunplay over the fishermen of tamilnadu, is clearly intimating the inutility of political benches both at center and state.if, the political dominates starts work on this issue by at least the threat of taking back their support to the center stage, this could have been cleared long time back. the major role on protecting fishermen lies under the naval forces of Indian government. if, Indian navy clearly indicates the strong intention and desire of saving the lives of our own citizens who crosses the depth and nautical miles of ocean for survival, this issue could have been cleared.

Here goes my question,

” Are the Tamil fishermen really Indians? “

The question with me is more aggressive and have its own values of changing the mind set of young tamils from Indian concept to the older of Tamil concept.But, I hope and expect the Indian concept will finally lead me towards patriotism and unity in difference.

I love my India,till the damage of my own culture and people.

The Successful way of my Life is more and more sculptured by my beloved father Mr.S.Kaivalyam, The Humanity, Love of my Language and Community has been transferred to me from my Father. I start my journey towards success from the footsteps of him.

I respect More on Mr.Rajesh Pajnoo, Who made my life into a smoother surface, Whereas, I learned lot of Dynamism, Style of Life, from him.I always respect and follow him as a Roll Model . I would like to dedicate this Blog to his Greatness without any Hesitation.

I always proud to be a tamilian, not only for the cultural and linguistic tradition. For being one of the oldest ethnic society in the world and lead the world towards civilization. Me called Harish (Arivazhagan), born on 21st October 1974, at a small village in Tamilnadu, called Maruthangudi (Behind well known Pillayarpatti), near Karaikudi of Sivaganga District. My father Mr.S.Kaivalyam, a retired Sub.Registrar of Co-Operative, lovely mother Mrs.Kalavathy a Home maker, a sister called Mrs.Myvizhi Kathiravan, and a brother called Mr.Anbazhagan. Living at Bangalore with my Loving Wife Sumathi and Kid, Me proud to be a periyarist, but not with any of the political party, me always against the caste system in India, me never tuned with the colours of useless reddish conception, more than all of these, I am a colourful human with the content of humanity. That’s the only identity for me.

I LOVE MY COUNTRY EVEN AS A VIGOUROUS PATRIOT

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